How to prepare your child for therapy Tip #2

2) Be honest about your own limitations.

Make sure that your child knows that although you are 100% committed to helping them. It is important that they know that you are dedicated to being there for them. This is a great opportunity to let them know that we all need help sometimes and the best way that you can help them is to bring in a professional who can help the entire family.

crack of dawn...or whenever you wake

Did you know that your morning routine sets the stage for your whole day and night? What is your regimen? Do you have one? What is most important to you as soon as you pull the covers back? Do you meditate? stretch? groom? Think about it. Evaluate how it sets your day up for victory or challenges?

No break from bullying prevention...

Many parents have asked me if it is okay to ignore bullying if it happens at summer camp, a soccer league or a monthly craft event. The answer is no. School is not the only place our children are susceptible to being bullied. We have to acknowledge and address bullying in the same way we do when school is in session. Summer gives us a vacation from the regular routine but bits and pieces can still find their ways into our lives. The best way to make sure that our kids are being kind is to show them examples year round. Education on these matters is always important.

Transition and change

How do you do with change? Has transition caused a drain on your perspective? The old adage says the only thing contact is change. Do you have any go-to strategies for dealing with unexpected change? The best way to start is to begin before the change hits. Anticipate what gears will shift and plan for them. You may find that great opportunity will come with preparation. Grab a note pad and jot down the things that may take a turn and just how you anticipate handling them. If you need more assistance-seek help from a trusted friend or a mental health professional to aid you in your time of change.

Environmental Awareness

I find that when I am surrounded by productivity and positivity I can't help but to resemble my surroundings. I also fid that when I am in a negative environment that rubs off too. You are susceptible to what you expose yourself to. If yoga re able to it can be worth it to choose spaces and places that make you happy. Talk to people that share smiles and share some yourself as well. We can have a brighter day and future by being in the right place at the right time. If you are not able to determine your surroundings bring a little but of sunshine with you. A mug for your coffee that makes you happy. A book for your lunch break that you enjoy. Take a walk or pop in some earbuds for a motivational podcast and/or great tunes. Do you want to work on being more positive? Or setting up a routine that allows you to overcome negativity? Let me know-Michener Associates offers counseling on a variety of topics and we would be happy to offer a consultation to get you on track to meet your goals.

Fresh Air can bring fresh thoughts

In my state we have had our fair share of snow. Every season can bring forth great progress but I am glad that today it is sunny and the white stuff is melting. The forecast is warning us that it is not over. I decided that if that is true-I will enjoy today. I will bask in the fact that I can walk in today's puddles that might become tomorrow's ice. So I did. I took a break from paperwork, research and client files and I put on my sneakers. I put off the pending manuscript and I tied my laces. I said to myself that the filing and organizing could wait and I stuck earbuds in my ears. I loved every bit of it. I took a two hour walk. I smiled, I had a chance to catch my breath and I let my thoughts flow. I appreciated the time to myself and with nature. We can't always have sunny days in March but when we do-we have to take advantage of them if we can. Can you take a walk today or just step outside and breath in the fresh air? It might make a difference.

Monday Needs to be your Motivation

Have you heard complaints about Monday? Jokes? We can work together to make sure that Monday is not a punch line but better yet-a starting line. This is the beginning of your week. We should get motivated about having a fresh start, a new beginning and a blank slate. Whatever happened last week might effect your mood but it is up to you to take today by storm and change your future for the better. Are you ready? I am. What can you do to make today better for yourself and better than last week? Make a list and get started.

Unload and Unleash

Sometimes it is necessary to get rid of baggage. Clutter comes in all forms. You might have things around your home that you don't use anymore that is crowding out your peace of mind. You may have baggage inside of your heart or your mind that is doing the same. Take some time to go through unwanted items in your home once a week. Even if it is just 30 minutes it could make a big difference. You could donate your items to a number of local non-profits that could use your unwanted treasures for the good of those in need. For the space in your head and/or in your heart. Get a journal. A easel or your preferred method of creative outlet and blurt out your feelings on paper. Release your fears, dreams and anxieties in your own special way. This also could help if it is a weekly occurrence. If you need to talk to someone find a therapist that you trust to share your load with. YOu are not alone and don't have to carry your own burdens.

Take my breath away...

How often do you get overwhelmed? Anxious? Stressed? Do you ever feel out of control? Try taking a deep breath. Calmly close your eyes. Think of something that makes you happy or at peace and focus on that mental picture. Exhale in. Exhale out. Repeat this until you feel better. It is not a miracle cure but it might make you feel like you are more in control and allow you the clarity to deal with the emotions that you are experiencing at the present moment with a clear head. Remember that a therapist can always be of help if you need to get a handle on the hard stuff and that this blog is not intended to treat any medical or mental condition.